Alright well this is going to be long, but hopefully worth it.  Iv'e recently played on a SMP server with great mods, good plugins, and mature players.  Everything was going well, (I was even promoted!)but then the owner private messages me to get off the server because I wasn't "fit".  I never break rules or harass others, so I was confused.  Personally I think they were intimidated.  But long story short I ended up leaving the server forever.  That's when I got to /r/mcservers and saw this.  Thought about checking it out, and now here I am :).  

Some personal info: My name is Chris, I live in New Jersey, I am 16 years old and you can probably tell- I love Eminem.  